Have you ever noticed how often people move away from one place, to another place entirely different from the place they moved from, and then proceed to try to make the new place over into an exact replica of the place they moved from? I'm not talking about relocations for jobs, where a choice of place to move to or from might not be possible. But, say, the classic example of this, which is people who move to "get away from the city" and move to the country, where they then proceed to complain about the fact that there are animals in the country (on the farm next door that was there for a hundred years, so it's not like they didn't have a chance to see that it was there before they moved), that there's dove hunting in dove season (we've GOT to get an ordinance passed to put a stop to this!), that all the lawns aren't immaculately mowed (but the fields sure do look good), that it gets dark at night (we need to have more streetlights!), that there are no sidewalks, and so forth and so on. All of this while commiting such faux pas as letting Fluffy run loose (that's why they moved to the country, after all) to pack up with other loose dogs and harrass the neighbor's cattle and run the weight off of them (but Fluffy would never do that!).
In various discussion lists that I frequent made up of people who live in the country, this phenomenon is frequently mentioned. The word "citiots" is bandied about in discussions of the various problems created by this attitude. My theory is that a lot of people don't do what we did when we moved to the country from the city - we did our due diligence before ever putting an offer in on our place. We not only checked out the schools (including a visit with the superintendent) but we looked into all the things we could find that would be different. We also went in with the assumption that we were moving into their territory - they being the people who had lived there for generations, who liked the way it was just fine. We figured that if there were any surprises, it would be up to us to adjust to those surprises rather than expecting the people who already lived there and liked things just fine to adjust to the way it was wherever we came from. A lot of people don't do this - it doesn't even occur to them that this is something that could be done. (The same applies, of course, to people who move from NYC to Texas or Texas to California or wherever, and then proceed to criticize and gripe about and, in some extreme cases, try to legislate change to make the new place just like the old, rather than enjoying the very delightful differences that each locale has to offer.)
What does this have to do with real estate? Well, I think that, just as we try to find the right house, and we encourage our clients to do due diligence in having the house inspected, we should encourage due diligence in this regard. This can be simple, or difficult - but we all have the tools at our disposal, the same ones we use in helping buyers find out what's most important; to them in a house. Those same tools, and others, can be used to help someone choosing what entirely new place to move to to find that place, so that they, and their future neighbors, will be happy.
One of the resources that I take advantage of is something done by an online friend on one of my horse lists after a discussion of just this topic. It can be found at: http://www.granitehillsdesign.com/rural/RuralHandout.pdf. In a relatively humorous way, it gives an idea of the challenges and adjustments that might be faced by someone moving from the city to the country. I'm also providing copies of this (the advantages of being the wife of a printer) to our small town City Council's office, where they receive inquiries from people considering moving here, to be provided with their relocation packet sent out to those people - our town is more rural than urban at the moment, though we're expected to add 5000 people in the next 5 years, and we only have 1200 now. I'm doing what I can to help the process be as painless as possible for all concerned, and this is part of that attempt. I see it as my responsibility both as part of the community and as a real estate professional.